The truth about why I left my high paying Corporate Job
When I drove to work that day, I thought it was going to be like any other in the past few months, an hour plus commute from Fairfield through the city to the office in Port Melbourne. Walk sheepishly past my bosses office hoping he doesn't notice that I am a few minutes late because I drop the kids off at school and sit at my cubicle.
Little did I know this day was not going to be normal at all and at the end, I would be starting my own business.
It started simply as the CEO asking me to come to his office. Which wasn't unusual as we had weekly status meetings.
"How was your weekend?", I started.
"Why the F*#K haven't you finished the website", was the pleasant way he replied and the conversation got worse from there.
"I'm waiting for you to approve the latest changes", I retorted.
"So it's my fault!" he shouted.
"Well yes", I stammered. He didn't like that.
He stood up, all 6'3" of him and started poking his finger at me and yelling that it was his business and so I was literally stealing his money by not getting the work done on time and that he can't trust me to make decisions.
A few months before he had pulled the entire marketing budget due to a steep sales decline and ensured that everything we were doing had to be approved by him personally. Being manic about every tiny detail it was virtually impossible to get anything progressed.
The tirade went on for a while and I found myself feeling quite calm and thinking, "what do I do?"
My choices were to suck it up, apologies for something that wasn't my fault or stand my ground. You can probably guess from the fact I am no longer working there, that I stood my ground. Bullies hate that.
The final straw was when he accused me of not really being sick a few weeks back and slacking off. My mistake was to answer some urgent emails while I was home with the flu, giving the impression I wasn't sick enough.
It was like time was standing still, while he was yelling at me, and I had time to consider my next options. I was gravitating towards taking my side hustle business Social Star, full time and not getting another job. So when he was done I just calmly picked up my laptop and phone and walked out, never to return.
The truth of the matter is that I really didn't want to work in corporate anymore anyhow.
My heart wasn't in it and perhaps it showed. I wanted to run my own business but I had the golden handcuffs on pretty tight. Big salary, fancy events, smart title. But limited fulfilment, very low integrity.
So perhaps I had a hand in creating that exit. I know I felt free walking to my car and driving away from a corporate office for the last time. Like a weight had been lifted and I could do whatever I wanted, with the clients I resonated with and work around my kids.
Fast forward to now, it's been eight years since that day and I haven't regretted it for one moment. Even when it was tough with cash flow, having multiple business issues, I still think back to why I didn't suck it up and put up with a bully boss.
My freedom and that of my kids is far more important than some rocky business paths.
If you feel like it's time to get out and do your own thing. Come have a chat with me and I will share my journey of building my brand and business all for the cost of a coffee (or beer or two).
I can't promise you it's easier, but I can tell you it's worth it.
Andrew
P.S. I am now taking applications for my beta course of Launch in 12 Weeks at a fraction of the cost to get some feedback before we launch. If you are interested just send me a message.