Is 50 too old to do a startup? Or should I just have a rest...
Turning 50 is a milestone to be sure, but not the one it once was. When I was a kid, people use to retire at this grand old age. Today, it seems you are only halfway to the end and have so much time left, you better have a huge (Telsa size) nest egg or best you be working awhile longer!
So what to do once you reach 50, taper into the end of your career or start something new?
To be frank, this is the dilemma I have been facing for the last little while as I approached my big day. Go for one more shot at a tech start-up for the unicorn payday, or just cruise into a nice lifestyle. Hmmm...
To help me decide if I can be bothered jumping into the entrepreneurship inferno again or I just want to put my feet up a bit, I explored a few different techniques I have learnt over the years. Perhaps some of these tips might help a few others to decide their next steps.
Firstly, I examined my Values. These are not right or wrong values, more how I want to prioritise my time. I base this on Dr Demartini's work but this process goes back to the early days of business coaching in the 1960's. There are seven values in this process: Business, Money, Family, Friends, Health, Education and Spirituality. Put them in order from most important to least important. (Tip: they are all important, but if push comes to shove, which do you choose. e.g. do you not take a business meeting to complete your gym workout or see a friend or visa versa?)
I realised that my Health value has gone WAY up on my priorities recently. I just don't want to give up my exercise and health routine to work more hours. After seeing several friends pass away and become severely ill, I realise how important it is to stay in top shape. I know stress is a big issue in health so I am happy to work hard, but not have excessive pressure.
Another change was my friend's value, which is taking the time to be social and maintain your relationships. This slipped for me in my 40's as I built my business and I really want to focus on this in the coming years. Time to have more fun after two decades of working and studying!
The second activity I did was to spend quite a lot of time meditating on the topic. It seemed to be always on my mind and causing me to be out of flow as I hadn't resolved the decision yet. I'm sure many people reading this would understand the feeling of restlessness that comes with weighing up a big choice.
My thinking on this is to not rush the decision, sit in the discomfort and keep focusing on the solution that is right for you. It will come naturally at the right time as long as you keep sitting with it. I like to focus on it while running or in bed when I first wake up.
Finally, once I had thought about it long enough, I made a decision. Sometimes it's hard to draw a line in the sand, but you got to. You usually know what you really, really want, but sometimes you feel it will hurt others or they will not agree with your decision. Too bad. You have to do what you have to do. Make the choice, write it down and tell people when required.
Once you have your plan in place, man you feel so much better! Lighter, certain and ready for the next challenge. It gives you the inspiration to get working again and you feel in flow.
For me, I am going to focus on my next book, speaking, teaching and coaching. That's what I truly love doing and will leave the next generation of entrepreneurs to build the next big thing. If I can help them do it, awesome! But I'm not going to lead the charge.
I hope that was useful and I would love to hear what you are up to after reaching the big 50.
Regards Andrew
P.S. If you are feeling stuck and uncertain, try a few of these techniques and reach out if you feel a chat might help. I love connecting with like-minded people who are on a quest for their path.